still a good story

And then from the backseat, you hear a fidgeting restlessness. He begins to speak, and from the second the sentence ends, you feel the air around you change.

“In the last chapter of Narnia that we read, they killed Aslan.”

You grip your hands tighter around the steering wheel. Your knuckles turn pink-white, hard.

You reply, breathing evenly.

Yes, they did.

You know this is not the end. You wait for the next. You can feel questions creeping, circling around the pathways of his brain, only almost-five years old.

“That was really bad. The White Witch cut his mane to look like a kitty cat’s mane. And all the creatures on the Witch’s side made fun of him like he was a little kitty cat.”

Your fingers ease up on the wheel. Maybe it is not the question you think. Maybe it is not why-did-Aslan-die or why-did-God-let-him-die or why-did-Maggie-and-Abby-die.

Maybe you are just talking about the book.

Yes, they did cut his mane and make fun of him. That’s a hard part of the story, isn’t it?

Your breath begins to deepen. This is not so hard.

We are only talking about the book.

And then he continues.

“But when we read a part of the book that is bad or sad, why do you always say, ‘This is such a good story’?”

There it is. The breath is caught and the knuckles are whiter and the pathways of your own brain flood with a torrent of worry: I cannot do this, I do not know the answers, this is important, don’t screw it up, say something.

Well. You start to reply.

Well. Where is the answer.

I say that because even when it is a hard part of the story, the story can still be good.

There can still be good that comes out of it.

This is all you know. You hope it is enough. There are no answers.

“Oh,” he says. You glance in the rearview mirror to see him looking out the window, green fields rolling by, hopeful waves of spring.

You want to say more. It is not enough. You start to say something about Jesus, the part of the story when he died and people hurt him and made fun of him and killed him.

That was a terrible part of the story, right? But there was still good that came out of it. Right?

“Right,” he says again. He is still staring out the window.

It is not enough. Your heart sinks. Stubborn stories of resurrection, how are you supposed to know what they mean, nothing makes sense anymore (if it ever did make sense Before) and the world is full of staggering suffering, heaps deeper than your small life will ever hold, and yet God is still unrelenting goodness, and you have no idea how to understand this, let alone explain it to a child.

Does that make sense? You wonder out loud, hoping something might be enough in the face of nothing.

He is silent. Still turned away.

“Yeah,” he finally says. “But can we read another chapter tonight?”

Yes, you rush to say, yes of course. 

You want to keep going, to say something else, something about how there is always more to the story, something about how the hint of what comes next can be enough to keep us going, something about how the promise of hope can make even the hard chapters good. But you cannot find the words.

And when you do read it again that night, books and brothers and blankets all heaped into one bed and all of your heads together on one pillow, and Lucy and Susan are wandering and despairing like Marys at the tomb, and suddenly Aslan appears again, brilliant and breath-taking and pouncing and playing and all of them delighting in each other, more than they ever did Before – only then, after the last paragraph has ended and you close the cover and you hold the book to your chest and sigh that satisfied smile, only then do you realize how he was right. You do always say this, after every chapter, the terrible and the triumphant, no matter what happens.

Isn’t this a good story?

Because somehow you know it still is. And he reminded you.

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  1. Laura on 17 August 2016 at 12:56 pm

    When we lost our Francis (miscarriage at 1 month), the most difficult part for me of loosing this child was also loosing the opportunity to take care of him. I was praying about this in church in front of a statue of Mary, the Mother of Jesus. At one point during my sobbing, I looked up at the statue of Mary. I was blessed with a vision of Mary in Heaven with many little children of various ages surrounding her. Then I saw one little baby, new born (I knew that it was my little Francis) being held by Mary in her left arm. Then Francis climbed up onto Mary’s shoulder, crawled across the back of her neck and sat down on her right shoulder. Then Mary and Francis looked at each other and began to delightfully, playfully laugh. I thought to myself, “Mary is taking care of my baby. I to not have to worry about him. I do not have feel sad that I cannot take care of him. He is being taken care of far better than I ever could take care of him. Most of all, he is completely happy and content. ” Whenever I felt sad about Francis, or about Christian whom I lost a couple of years later, I recalled this vision. Most of the time, I now feel joy that my babies are in Heaven with Mary. I am certain that this vision was real. This is what happened in Heaven with Francis and Mary and all the little children that surrounded Mary, playing and laughing, completely at peace and content. Praise God for His love for our children! I pray for healing and joy to be yours soon!

  2. Steph on 20 June 2016 at 12:14 pm

    I need to thank you, Laura. I’ve always found that organizing words–though prayer and journaling–helps me best express emotions, work through new ideas, or find meaning in my experiences. But ever since our baby Gabriel passed away, my attempts to pray and write have mostly failed.

    Thankfully, I stumbled across your blog in those first weeks of grief. I can relate to you in a few ways: I also have three young children at home, had a surprise(!) fourth pregnancy, began having placental complications, and just prayed each day for the baby to get another day of safe growth inside. Gabriel was born March 1st, at 23.1wks gestation, and lived 15 minutes in our arms.

    I pray one day to be able to organize this mountain of emotion and valley of numbness into words that tell a “good story.” In the meantime, your essays buoy my faith and offer me hope. Thank you, so much.

  3. Kateri on 15 June 2016 at 10:25 am

    Oh Laura, I needed this so much right now! We are in the thick and painful experience of our second miscarriage right now, and it is so very, very hard to remember that it can still be a good story. My heart just isn’t there yet. I often think of you and Franco in the moments when it feels exceptionally hard, and wish I could be as strong and hopeful in my grief as you, unfortunately, have had to be. Please know that our family continues to pray for yours, and that you (and your beautiful little girls) have been an inspiration to me. Thank you for once again sharing words that remind me to hang in there….even (especially?) when I just don’t want to.

  4. g on 14 June 2016 at 7:52 am

    Ugh. This kid and his questions; what a little theologist. Such a good reminder that we mess around in the messiness of life at all times. (i actually haven’t read the books- but i watched the movies, does that count?) The fact that these books are captivating people of ALL ages throughout the ages is a reminder of the timelessness and resonance of this story- however it is told- we are to have hope- but that does not come easy most days.

  5. Julie on 13 June 2016 at 2:33 pm

    Oh, Laura. So, so hard–loss and pain. But because of His death, His pain, we can suffer with him. Because of His Resurrection, we have hope! Hope for our eternity and peace in the knowledge that those who have gone before us are interceding for us and that we will be reunited with them. My continued prayers for you and your family.

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