the holy beautiful of right now
The sink is piled with crusty bowls from breakfast and crumbed plates from dinner. Four loads of laundry sit in the silent dark of our upstairs bedroom, waiting to be folded. Piles of Legos cover the coffee table. Two decks of cards are scattered across the living room floor. Half-broken crayons line the kitchen baseboard. Three pairs of boots are flung by the back door in a snowy heap.
And somehow it is beautiful.
I do not see it always. I do not see it often. But there is wild breathing beauty all around me. I cannot escape it in any cluttered corner. I fell in love with a boy in college; we got married on a bright blue day in July; now three more people exist in the world because of us. This strange stunning truth brings me to my knees.
Children plaster our walls with art, hide surprises in our shoes, throw their dirty socks over the balcony even though we’ve told them a thousand times not to. They tumble out of their chairs at dinner because they laugh so hard, and they run around screaming with glee whenever we chase them before bath-time. They tackle each other with hugs and loud-whisper naughty words in each other’s ears, and when all three stop to grin at each other, I feel like my humble heart could actually explode out of my chest.
Right now might be the most beautiful time in my life. And if I don’t notice now, I won’t remember later.
Sometimes I think all my problems are blessings. Too much good work, too many people to love and care for, too much living packed in too few hours. One day there will be quiet and peace and calm control once again, but there will never be the messy, joyful, puzzling delight that is right now.
There is holy beauty in this: a heart and mind filled to overflowing.
So I try to let myself stop. To see, smell, touch, feel, breathe it. All I can do – maybe all that any of us can do – is witness. Notice and delight in whatever goodness, whatever God-ness is thick around us, even in the midst of the heartbreak that is living in this mortal world.
I know tonight my children will wake me from sweet sleep and tomorrow they will drive me batty with whining and every day this week I will likely lose my temper. But I will never once take this grace-filled life for granted.
It is the humblest, holiest gift I have been given.
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“Life is this simple. We are living in a world that is absolutely transparent and God is shining through it all the time. This is not just a fable or a nice story. It is true. If we abandon ourselves to God and forget ourselves, we see it sometimes, and we see it maybe frequently. God manifests Himself everywhere, in everything — in people and in things and in nature and in events. It becomes very obvious that He is everywhere and in everything and we cannot be without Him. You cannot be without God. It’s impossible. It’s simply impossible. The only thing is that we don’t see it. What is it that makes the world opaque? It is care.”
– Thomas Merton
Thank you for the lovely thoughts on the (absolute) sanctity of the moment. Among other things, I’m an associate deacon of Madonna House, founded by Servant of God Catherine Doherty. She often spoke of the ‘duty of the moment’ and the recognition of holiness in the dirty dishes tackled with love. And, small world story, Thomas Merton gave Catherine a copy of Seven Story Mountain manuscript long before it was published — they were spiritual and inspirational friends. Blessings, Laura. Dcn Tom
Dcn Tom, thank you for this beautiful comment! I am so sorry it inadvertently went to my spam folder! 🙂 Beautiful to know the connections between your work and all these holy men and women…thank you for stopping here.